It took me several years to understand how self care played into my life. With every subsequent month of PMDD, self care had to become that much greater. This was not easy.
Some of the most resilient, courageous, raw and real women I know have PMDD. This is something so clear to me as I have journeyed for so many years with PMDD. PMDD has the potential to reveal the most raw and naked vulnerability. It has been nothing short of messy.
PMDD is unkept, untamed and wildly unpredictable. This degree of unpredictability reminds me of Nature. In the end, we have no control. PMDD is much like this.
It is harsh, traumatizing and painful. It comes in waves of every degree. It is bittersweet to know the fleeting nature of life—of death and joy and pain. It is all passing.
Through years of being challenged with PMDD, years of living in suffering and isolation, self care has become a daily ritual. It is something that needs consistent reminding and nurturing.
— PRACTICES —
Early Morning Music, Warm Lemon Water & Tea time. First thing I drink a cup of warm lemon water followed by a cup of tea or coffee. Stretching in the morning~Falling into meditation. I love early mornings—the quiet, solitude, and stillness.
Abhyanga Self Oil Massage. Self Love and Grounding.
Early Morning Walks. When the air is crisp, before the day begins, I like to go outside and move my body. Remembering how blessed I am that I still have this precious body. Always giving gratitude, even on the really hard days.
Writing Positive Affirmations or Mantras to help remind myself to stay positive and feel Love within myself.
Taking Baths and lighting candles, dropping into breath through listening to music bringing me deeper into relaxation.
Jumping in Fresh Water, Alpine Lakes, Rivers, Streams, the Ocean. Let the Waters Wash me clean.